Whomever is reading this, and I know someone IS, because I’ve been happily watching the stat counter go up everyday, I want to tell you something. I want to tell you that it’s ok to feel however it is that you feel that led you to reading my blog. Maybe you feel like me, maybe you’re heartbroken, maybe you just want to read stories about someone who isn’t you, maybe you feel sorry for me or feel hope that I’m going to change my mind someday. Whatever the reason is, I want you to know that it’s ok to be you, whomever that is, and to feel the way you do.
As I’ve been traveling on this new path of “I Quit Dating,” I’ve been met with all types of comments from everyone. Mostly negative sprinkled with “You’re RIGID!”…”You’re too young to be doing this!”…”You COULD BE missing out on something great!” No one said, “It’s ok to feel the way you do.” No one said, “If this is what makes you happy, you should do it. You should BE YOU,” because they’ve been to busy dishing out advice. So I want to tell you, incase no one told you today that I’m glad you’re here. I’m glad you stumbled on this blog and I’m grateful that you’re reading my stories. Most importantly, I’m glad YOU”RE YOU and you should be too. xo – J
Photo Taken By Me in Venice, CA